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General Category => General Harness Racing Discussion => Topic started by: AmyHollar on December 08, 2011, 10:49:39 AM

Title: RIP Steve Gray
Post by: AmyHollar on December 08, 2011, 10:49:39 AM
For the second time this year I am terribly saddened to learn of the passing of someone special by their own hand.

Steve had such a warm personality I just can not fathom why he would choose to leave behind those who cared about him, especially his children.

May God grant them all serenity...............and peace to Steve.  redrose
Title: Re: RIP Steve Gray
Post by: C10hitch on December 08, 2011, 11:00:36 AM
I heard about this about 9am and my head has been spinning ever since. Steve was so kind and funny and just a dear dear person.
Title: Re: RIP Steve Gray
Post by: AmyHollar on December 08, 2011, 11:12:30 AM
Dad said he saw him a couple times at Hoosier this year and he was always talking about his kids.............what terrible pain he must have been in
Title: Re: RIP Steve Gray
Post by: sea biscuit on December 08, 2011, 11:41:15 AM

My condolences to the Gray family.

RIP Mr Gray redrose
Title: Re: RIP Steve Gray
Post by: LVGaryD on December 08, 2011, 12:19:46 PM
Very sad indeed. Our deepest sympathy to Steve's family. heartluv redrose
Title: Re: RIP Steve Gray
Post by: Just Saying on December 08, 2011, 12:27:50 PM
Life is such a precious gift, it's such a shame when someone ends their own. Prayers to his family. redrose
Title: Re: RIP Steve Gray
Post by: beans and weenies on December 08, 2011, 01:04:28 PM
I cannot imagine the grief that Steve was going thru for him to do this.   A dear friend that Tony and I would never of thought this would happen to .  RIP. Steve.  You were loved by many and will be missed.  Our hearts ache.
Title: Re: RIP Steve Gray
Post by: UPPER FILLY on December 08, 2011, 05:43:02 PM
 redrose

So many other choices..so sad
Title: Re: RIP Steve Gray
Post by: pope of vegas on December 08, 2011, 07:51:12 PM
  An absolute shame..  My prayers for the kids .. redrose  R.I.P.Steven
Title: Re: RIP Steve Gray
Post by: 3 wide and wingin on December 08, 2011, 08:35:55 PM
The kids are very young. This is very sad.
Things do always get better with time.

 redrose redrose
Title: Re: RIP Steve Gray
Post by: sea biscuit on December 09, 2011, 01:53:07 AM
Dad said he saw him a couple times at Hoosier this year and he was always talking about his kids.............what terrible pain he must have been in

He posted the following message on facebook before committing suicide

"Got an early christmas present today...a restraining order,evicted from my house and i cant see my kids. U live with someone for fourteen years and you think you know them.dont count on it.. Merry Christmas"

Title: Re: RIP Steve Gray
Post by: AmyHollar on December 09, 2011, 04:47:13 AM
Yes, several of us saw it............never would have dreamed he was going to such measure.
Title: Re: RIP Steve Gray
Post by: sallyjo on December 09, 2011, 05:24:58 AM
shocked then sad,, so so sad..
Title: Re: RIP Steve Gray
Post by: Mr. B on December 09, 2011, 09:47:33 AM
Just hard to believe really... I worked with Steve when I was in the ISA, and he was so easy going.  I am sure everyone who knew him will miss him.
Title: Re: RIP Steve Gray
Post by: LVGaryD on December 09, 2011, 02:43:40 PM
Yes, several of us saw it............never would have dreamed he was going to such measure.
I saw the post too, but thought little of it. I really cannot place Steve. Not sure I actually knew the man in person, but his name sure sounds familiar.
Title: Re: RIP Steve Gray
Post by: careless hal on December 09, 2011, 03:26:01 PM
My condolences to the family and friends.  Suicide is a hard thing for the people left behind to deal with.