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Title: OT: Whatever happened to "Is that you, ___?"
Post by: Lockjaw on February 17, 2013, 02:37:48 PM
Remember, before everyone had their own cell phone, when you called a family member or friend at home (on their land line), and someone, other than the person you expected, picked up the receiver?  Often,  it was one of the kids in the house who answered the phone, maybe one of your friend's kids, a nephew, or a grandchild.  Upon hearing that kid's voice, more than likely, you said something like, "Is that you, ___?"  What followed was a chance encounter, a chance conversation that could not be screened by caller ID and postponed to the answering machine graveyard.  Texting, of course, and all of the other social media keep everybody spontaneously interacting all the time, but I'm not sure if that's the same thing as the chance conversation, using the only phone in the house.  Cell phones are great, but whenever technology advances, there are lots of small things that pass away without anybody noticing.
Title: Re: OT: Whatever happened to "Is that you, ___?"
Post by: mo doc n on February 17, 2013, 03:23:17 PM
Funny we were just talking about this @ Maywood over some drinks.
It's amazing what you can find on youtube ~ all the episodes of Lucy , Three Stooges , Frank Sinatra etc. O&S who is getting very old this year loves the fact he can talk into his phone and get whatever information he is looking for.

Yes you lose the personal things but your gaining so much precious time too.

 idunno
Title: Re: OT: Whatever happened to "Is that you, ___?"
Post by: careless hal on February 17, 2013, 09:17:36 PM
I first met my future wife when I called my friend's house and his wife answered the phone. Well, I thought it was his wife so I started flirting with her.  Turns out my friend and his wife went out and I was talking to the babysitter.   I guess I scared the sh@t out of the youngster.
Seven years later I married the babbysitter.(So, I robed the cradle)
Title: Re: OT: Whatever happened to "Is that you, ___?"
Post by: The Skipper on February 17, 2013, 10:57:40 PM
I first met my future wife when I called my friend's house and his wife answered the phone. Well, I thought it was his wife so I started flirting with her.  Turns out my friend and his wife went out and I was talking to the babysitter.   I guess I scared the sh@t out of the youngster.
Seven years later I married the babbysitter.(So, I robed the cradle)


Has she gotten her eyes fixed yet ?  idunno  rflmao1 rflmao1 rflmao1
Title: Re: OT: Whatever happened to "Is that you, ___?"
Post by: The Skipper on February 17, 2013, 11:00:28 PM

Good post LJ, I still hate texting the kids and grandkids I love the sound of their voice, you can't find

a lot of emotion in text.  noway
Title: Re: OT: Whatever happened to "Is that you, ___?"
Post by: AmyHollar on February 18, 2013, 05:48:58 AM
I think it is easier to open up thru texting. Just like letter writing of old. I also like the ability to text several people at once and not have to repeat over and over. It all may seem impersonal but due to the ease of communication relationships are easier to maintain and I think make this crazy world a lite more rewarding. 
Title: Re: OT: Whatever happened to "Is that you, ___?"
Post by: LVGaryD on February 18, 2013, 06:33:59 AM


Has she gotten her eyes fixed yet ?  idunno  rflmao1 rflmao1 rflmao1
rflmao1 rflmao1 rflmao1 rflmao1 rflmao1 rflmao1
Title: Re: OT: Whatever happened to "Is that you, ___?"
Post by: tonyb147 on February 18, 2013, 11:18:59 AM
I remember as a young lad calling friends and having either their mom or dad answer the phone. I was taught not to just say "is Billy home?" but instead say "hi Mr. xxxxx, this is TonyB. How are you?" and only after acknowledging the adult did I ask to speak to Billy. Today's utes have cell phones before reaching puberty and don't ever have to talk to an adult when calling their friends.

How about pre caller-id? It's rare today to take a call not knowing who is calling.
Title: Re: OT: Whatever happened to "Is that you, ___?"
Post by: LVGaryD on February 18, 2013, 02:44:14 PM
I remember as a young lad calling friends and having either their mom or dad answer the phone. I was taught not to just say "is Billy home?" but instead say "hi Mr. xxxxx, this is TonyB. How are you?" and only after acknowledging the adult did I ask to speak to Billy. Today's utes have cell phones before reaching puberty and don't ever have to talk to an adult when calling their friends.

How about pre caller-id? It's rare today to take a call not knowing who is calling.
AND back then, we did not ever, ever smart off to any adults other than our parents on the rare occasion when we felt like we needed our asses kicked.

 rflmao1 rflmao1 rflmao1
Title: Re: OT: Whatever happened to "Is that you, ___?"
Post by: Jeremy on February 19, 2013, 07:50:16 AM
I always get annoyed when I answer the phone at work and people just say 'Is ____ there' or 'I need to talk to _____', usually without even saying who they are. 

People that have bad phone manners are usually informed the person they want to talk to is not available.
Title: Re: OT: Whatever happened to "Is that you, ___?"
Post by: Just Saying on February 22, 2013, 09:17:48 PM
AND back then, we did not ever, ever smart off to any adults other than our parents on the rare occasion when we felt like we needed our asses kicked.

 rflmao1 rflmao1 rflmao1
When my beautiful blonde daughter was school-age the phone rang a lot. If the call started with "Is **** there?" I'd say yes and hang up the phone. She'd ask who it was? I'd say, "Some little prick with no phone manners." She'd scowl at Dad, but it wasn't long before some very polite young lads would call and ask to speak to her. She's been married to the best one for many years... and I never even had to threaten his life. (I helped one little bastard through a door without openining it. My bad...)
Title: Re: OT: Whatever happened to "Is that you, ___?"
Post by: The Giss on February 23, 2013, 06:33:01 PM
We have four (alleged) adults living in the house. So Mr Gisser could be two different people, as could Ms Gisser. People who know it and make the error usually apoligze.
I love it when the solicitors do the whole pitch for me when they want my son. So I say, you have the wrong Mr Gisser. Oh, could we speak to Kyle. He isn't here. Ok, we will call at a better time. (Without asking what a better time would be).
There was a time when being a phone solicitor was an honorable profession. No more.
Title: Re: OT: Whatever happened to "Is that you, ___?"
Post by: Jeremy on February 23, 2013, 07:23:18 PM
If phone solicitors keep calling, tell them they need to reach the person at 985-655-2500
Title: Re: OT: Whatever happened to "Is that you, ___?"
Post by: Just Saying on February 23, 2013, 08:03:56 PM
When my beautiful blonde daughter was school-age the phone rang a lot. If the call started with "Is **** there?" I'd say yes and hang up the phone. She'd ask who it was? I'd say, "Some little prick with no phone manners." She'd scowl at Dad, but it wasn't long before some very polite young lads would call and ask to speak to her. She's been married to the best one for many years... and I never even had to threaten his life. (I helped one little bastard through a door without openining it. My bad...)
I still look back fondly on having to replace that door, because if he had mistreated my little girl I'd still be in prison. He's never gotten near me in over 20 years. Apparently he's smarter than I had him figgered. ps He still likes to beat up girls.